
TJ LUBEY THERAPY
Therapy isn’t for fixing yourself. It's for finding yourself.
You’re showing up as the provider, the steady one, the calm in the chaos. But inside? You’re exhausted. Disconnected. Like you’re barely holding it together—and no one really knows it.
This is just what fatherhood feels like, right? No time to slow down. Needing help makes you a burden. But here’s the truth:
Being strong doesn’t mean doing it all alone.
Therapy isn’t for fixing yourself. It's for finding yourself.
You’re showing up as the provider, the steady one, the calm in the chaos. But inside? You’re exhausted. Disconnected. Like you’re barely holding it together—and no one really knows it.
This is just what fatherhood feels like, right? No time to slow down. Needing help makes you a burden. But here’s the truth:
Being strong doesn’t mean doing it all alone.
With one-on-one therapy with TJ Lubey, you can:
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Feel less overloaded and more in control of your emotional world
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Reconnect with your partner, your kids—and with yourself
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Stop hiding behind “I’m fine” and start living more honestly
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Build real coping tools that help you show up without burning out with someone who's been there.
With one-on-one therapy with TJ Lubey, you can:
-
Feel less overloaded and more in control of your emotional world
​
-
Reconnect with your partner, your kids—and with yourself
​
-
Stop hiding behind “I’m fine” and start living more honestly
​
-
Build real coping tools that help you show up without burning out with someone who's been there.
SERVICES
In-Person and Telehealth
IN-PERSON THERAPY
Meet face-to-face in Ventura, CA
TELEHEALTH SESSIONS
Secure telehealth throughout the State of California
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